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Re: Ways To STALL and Make More Money...
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Any tips for Domme/fetish type shows on how to stall?
I always greet them, ask them if they can see and hear me okay. This usually takes it to the mark where they will be charged. Then I tell them to get on their knees so they are ready to worship me and let me know when they are ready. By this point I get a clear idea on whether they will be communicating well or too busy jerking off to type to me. I always ask questions and wait for a response before going any further. I require interaction or I stop performing. Those minute men are of no interest to a Domme. If they take too long to respond I tell them to take their hand off their dick and talk to me. Then I usually shame them for not knowing how to worship properly lol.
11-05-2018, 12:40 PMSapphireXO
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I used to use ask customers to tell me what type of show they are looking for before they pay or call. Now I make SURE they are on the clock anytime we do any type of show. If its a show I don't do (example: age play, family play, penetration, etc.) I just let them know I'm not their model but thank them for reaching out. Usually they are impressed with my appearance and continue but with my rules. Also the "Can you see me? Can you hear me? Tell me how you want me? Tell me what you want to see?" Also takes up 30 seconds to 5 mins. I also talk a lot about their surroundings. "Is anyone home? Aren't you supposed to be working??? What if your boss knew what dirty fucking things you are up to on the clock." Easy distraction.
11-07-2018, 02:01 PMsexysusie
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Originally Posted by SapphireXO View Post
Tell me how you want me? Tell me what you want to see?"
Instead of 'tell me' which instantly puts the power in their hands and adds pressure for you to do rhat thing asap, try a more open ended question like "so what kinds of things are you into?". That opens up the way for a lot more questions you can ask/discussion which takes up more time and keeps you in control of that discussion
11-07-2018, 04:03 PMSapphireXO
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Instead of 'tell me' which instantly puts the power in their hands and adds pressure for you to do rhat thing asap, try a more open ended question like "so what kinds of things are you into?". That opens up the way for a lot more questions you can ask/discussion which takes up more time and keeps you in control of that discussion
I guess I am the demanding type. However, ABSOLUTELY! Great advice.
12-23-2018, 10:57 AMcoco789
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whenever they ask me to get something i take my sweet time..."okay baby...my room so junky i gotta find it" even though most of the time it's right on my dresser (where they can't see) I never have things sitting out in plain view
12-23-2018, 11:32 AMGlamourmilf
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whenever they ask to get something i take my sweet time..."okay baby...my room so junky i gotta find it" even though most of the time it's right on my dresser (where they can't see) I never have things sitting out
:rotfl::rotfl: I do this too!
I'm so organized, that it takes me less than 10 seconds to find something.
But, in my experience, these little tricksters usually leave as soon as I put whatever they want on.
Now, I make them wait.
12-23-2018, 04:29 PManonymous camgirl
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Back in the old days I would do more than go look for something, I would go pottie even , fix a drink...lol
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whenever they ask me to get something i take my sweet time..."okay baby...my room so junky i gotta find it" even though most of the time it's right on my dresser (where they can't see) I never have things sitting out in plain view
12-31-2018, 04:46 AMcutiecam
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When I worked on pay per minute sites, I would literally start a normal conversation with the guy. I'd find some way to strike up a conversation based on their username, time of day, ask them to describe what they look like, ANYTHING. I always start every question with who, what, when, where or why. And keep asking questions and be interested. You do 20% of the talking, they do 80%.
Most my privates were 30 minutes bullshitting and the last 15 actual sexy stuff. At 8.99 a min on streamate, most guys were capped by that 45 min mark. Stalling=conversation and personal connection.
You can tell when the guy is definitely not into the talking, but plenty of guys will allow the bullshitting. Make them like you on a personal level before they see the pussy. These conversations almost always lead to the guy coming back again, for the same amount of time. Write notes, remember the conversation and pick up where ya left off. Most dudes would come back 3-5 sessions before they got bored of me and needed new pussy.
01-02-2019, 06:24 PMSapphireXO
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Back in the old days I would do more than go look for something, I would go pottie even , fix a drink...lol
I'm so glad you mentioned this! After I read this, I use that exact line of, "Ok sure let me go get it. I just have to warn you - my room is a bit junkie so it may take a minute..." I got a drink, used the restroom, checked my non-cam phone, and slowlyyyyyyy got dressed in their outfit request.
01-24-2019, 07:58 PMmagicgembliss
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too many dudes lately who are already wanking it and all "take it off baby" the minute they see you or try to tell you what to do- esp the fake subs- the traffic can be shitty sometimes. so yeah i'm noticing i need to work on my stalling tactics for sure. from time to time as members seem to speed up during calls, i need to reassert my dominance, make them remember who's boss and slow things back down. for example become very firm with anyone the minute they try to get talky or bossy with you, even for my vanilla shows- i could tell them "sorry i work mostly as a domme so it used to being in control. have you ever been submissive?" and talk your way through it, even if they've got their cock out wanking already lol- the better if they feel embarassed!!
03-09-2019, 02:30 AMGirlWithAPlan
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I always started off by saying Hi and then asking where they were from, then I'd tell them to show me their cam. I'd sit there still clothed and say "Ok, so what are we doing to do today? Play? What's your fetish?". If they told me a little about it in free chat like "Hey if I go pvt can you wear stilettos" I'd say "Why yes, I'd love to go PVT and wear any of my stilettos for you". I'd then say "So now that you went private with me and followed my rules (I always stated if you wanted my attention you needed to be one on one), exactly which pair of stilettos would you like to see? I'd then describe them...not show.
I'd actually do all my cam shows that way, just substitute stiletto guy for any guy. Maybe he was vanilla and wanted a quickie. I'd still ask where he was from, tell him I'd love to see his cam too so I could get as turned on (sometimes a lie) and then proceed to be as slowly revealing as possible. If they demanded to see this or that I'd ignore it a little bit then barely show...I'd make them wait for what they wanted. I usually always received 5 stars. I never had a person say I was terrible or a rip off. Most came back and thought I was a great tease.
I think teasing them is the art. And then, after, I'd thank them and then try some small talk again. Sometimes we'd talk another five or ten minutes about just ourselves or other mundane things. Those would end up being my regulars.
Don't take your clothes off. No shame in how you do things, but I looked on SM and noticed women topless in free chat begging for gold because the guy weren't giving any. I understand the frustration but I agree with the ones who said...keep..the..clothes..on.
I talk to dancers a lot, a lot don't show everything. They don't have to. Or, they don't show everything on stage. They wait until private and it makes them MORE money.
07-19-2019, 12:31 AMKileycorrupt
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New SM model here ������ let’s bump this thread
07-19-2019, 05:42 PMxstripper90
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Streamate sucks ass for hustling. If you try to drag or tease anything out or try to chat with them to find out what they want. They leave the room and give you shitty ratings. SM has the duechiest guys.
07-25-2019, 08:20 AMVictoria_Gray
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Originally Posted by xstripper90 View Post
Streamate sucks ass for hustling. If you try to drag or tease anything out or try to chat with them to find out what they want. They leave the room and give you shitty ratings. SM has the duechiest guys.
To be fair too, you might not even be asking questions because you want to stretch it out, you might be asking questions because you want to know what they're into or because *gasp* you're doing this kind of job because you're genuinely curious about human sexuality and what makes people tick sexually.
07-25-2019, 12:38 PMmagicgembliss
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you're genuinely curious about human sexuality and what makes people tick sexually.
Prove that cam customers - the ones youre more likely to talk to, because they log on every day (not compulsive at all)- are a random sample of males or females not an outlier or slightly pathological one. Have you applied anthropology to this? What nationalities are those online, and how do their cultural norms play out in theur online "sexual behavior"?
07-25-2019, 12:43 PMmagicgembliss
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Streamate sucks ass for hustling. If you try to drag or tease anything out or try to chat with them to find out what they want. They leave the room and give you shitty ratings. SM has the duechiest guys.
Meh..maybe. There are some real winners on MFC..but Chaturbate takes the cake.
07-26-2019, 08:41 PManonamiss
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Streamate sucks ass for hustling. If you try to drag or tease anything out or try to chat with them to find out what they want. They leave the room and give you shitty ratings. SM has the duechiest guys.
totally disagree. the key for me is finding the right guy to go private with in the first place. Every site is full of cheap entitled douchebags. So I spend a lot of time in free chat weeding them out and rejecting lots of shows. I talk a LOT, which attracts a certain type of guy and general demographic. It takes a fair bit of energy but it is so worth it for me. I flat out refuse to take shows with the guys who speak one or two word demands in free chat, or have no sense of small talk or general communication.
If a guy comes in and all he says is "cum in pvt bb?" and you say "sure lets go", no offense but it shouldn't surprise you that he isn't going to give a shit about you doing a drawn out tease or if you ask them questions, and might be the type to give a bad rating. I only go private with guys who I've had some chitchat (or full on conversations) with ahead of time. (I am definitely not the type of girl who has a "pay me or get out" mentality. It *pays* to be more patient and selective, and to spend some time and energy in free chat.) After doing this for so long you develop camgirl intuition and can tell who's going to be a quicky and who's going to spend more time and money on you.
Frankly the best way to stall and make more money (IMO) is to attract the type of guys who like you as more than just a sex prop, who will enjoy watching you take your time, and can afford to do so. Even if they can't afford much, they'll still spend as much as they can because they are already super intrigued by you before you go private. At that point its not even about stalling. Its just about being comfortable and moving at a nice pace. With this method/hustle, I rarely get a show that's under 5 minutes, and often get shows lasting 15+ minutes, even with new guys.
07-27-2019, 09:27 PMMiss_ShaSha
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totally disagree. the key for me is finding the right guy to go private with in the first place. Every site is full of cheap entitled douchebags. So I spend a lot of time in free chat weeding them out and rejecting lots of shows. I talk a LOT, which attracts a certain type of guy and general demographic. It takes a fair bit of energy but it is so worth it for me. I flat out refuse to take shows with the guys who speak one or two word demands in free chat, or have no sense of small talk or general communication.
If a guy comes in and all he says is "cum in pvt bb?" and you say "sure lets go", no offense but it shouldn't surprise you that he isn't going to give a shit about you doing a drawn out tease or if you ask them questions, and might be the type to give a bad rating. I only go private with guys who I've had some chitchat (or full on conversations) with ahead of time. (I am definitely not the type of girl who has a "pay me or get out" mentality. It *pays* to be more patient and selective, and to spend some time and energy in free chat.) After doing this for so long you develop camgirl intuition and can tell who's going to be a quicky and who's going to spend more time and money on you.
Frankly the best way to stall and make more money (IMO) is to attract the type of guys who like you as more than just a sex prop, who will enjoy watching you take your time, and can afford to do so. Even if they can't afford much, they'll still spend as much as they can because they are already super intrigued by you before you go private. At that point its not even about stalling. Its just about being comfortable and moving at a nice pace. With this method/hustle, I rarely get a show that's under 5 minutes, and often get shows lasting 15+ minutes, even with new guys.
When I say I STFO, I "stay the fuck on" for these type of interactions. Do I do a show or two with the "quick" customers? Sure. But the majority of my shows are with men who want a "show".
I have to wholeheartedly agree with what you're saying here. There's an understanding reached in free chat before I go private or exclusive that ensures it's not a "wham bam thank you ma'am" engagement.
I usually describe what will happen then get confirmation. Some guys admit: "I won't last long" & sometimes I'll turn those shows down. On the other hand, I might take them. Hey, we can't all be choosey. Sometimes we've got bills to pay & micro shows add up; however agreement to a process in free chat often times allows you the freedom to blow their mind with a production & there lies the opportunity to perform.
08-02-2019, 01:30 PMSapphireXO
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To revive this thread:
1. I always start putting lip gloss on. Layers! Then I start asking them the details about what they are craving, how they want to see me, what they are in the mood for...
2. Yes wear an outfit with at least 3 layers (button up shirt, tank top, bra, g string under boy shorts, long socks, dresses with full lingerie underneath.
3. Learn to work angles. Camera on your monitor/camera under your keyboard so they are looking up at you/camera at the end of your desk for ass and thigh angles/holding your camera so its just up close pussy action etc.
4. I do body part focuses teasing ---> focus on your tits: rubbing them, caressing them, jiggling them, one bra strap down, then the other. Then posing. Nipple carassing and pinching. I do this with my ass, my thighs, my hips, my feet. BIG TIME WASTER!
5. Switching outfit changes. I swear I can stretch changing into 5 outfits 15-20 minutes doing all the above...
08-03-2019, 11:55 AMKristysmassage
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Originally Posted by Victoria_Gray View Post
To be fair too, you might not even be asking questions because you want to stretch it out, you might be asking questions because you want to know what they're into or because *gasp* you're doing this kind of job because you're genuinely curious about human sexuality and what makes people tick sexually.
Exactly, trying to get to find out about them. They always assume that girls are trying to hustle them.
08-03-2019, 11:58 AMKristysmassage
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Originally Posted by anonamiss View Post
totally disagree. the key for me is finding the right guy to go private with in the first place. Every site is full of cheap entitled douchebags. So I spend a lot of time in free chat weeding them out and rejecting lots of shows. I talk a LOT, which attracts a certain type of guy and general demographic. It takes a fair bit of energy but it is so worth it for me. I flat out refuse to take shows with the guys who speak one or two word demands in free chat, or have no sense of small talk or general communication.
If a guy comes in and all he says is "cum in pvt bb?" and you say "sure lets go", no offense but it shouldn't surprise you that he isn't going to give a shit about you doing a drawn out tease or if you ask them questions, and might be the type to give a bad rating. I only go private with guys who I've had some chitchat (or full on conversations) with ahead of time. (I am definitely not the type of girl who has a "pay me or get out" mentality. It *pays* to be more patient and selective, and to spend some time and energy in free chat.) After doing this for so long you develop camgirl intuition and can tell who's going to be a quicky and who's going to spend more time and money on you.
Frankly the best way to stall and make more money (IMO) is to attract the type of guys who like you as more than just a sex prop, who will enjoy watching you take your time, and can afford to do so. Even if they can't afford much, they'll still spend as much as they can because they are already super intrigued by you before you go private. At that point its not even about stalling. Its just about being comfortable and moving at a nice pace. With this method/hustle, I rarely get a show that's under 5 minutes, and often get shows lasting 15+ minutes, even with new guys.
Sorry, but that sounds like a lot of work just a hustle a few bucks out of someone. If it takes that much to land a high roller, I think I'll just stick to my 9 to 5 and keep dating guys with money.
08-03-2019, 12:04 PMkamiliam
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Sorry, but that sounds like a lot of work just a hustle a few bucks out of someone. If it takes that much to land a high roller, I think I'll just stick to my 9 to 5 and keep dating guys with money.
Yeah but this is our job so...
08-03-2019, 12:11 PManonamiss
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Sorry, but that sounds like a lot of work just a hustle a few bucks out of someone. If it takes that much to land a high roller, I think I'll just stick to my 9 to 5 and keep dating guys with money.
I don't see it as "a lot of work" (although like kamiliam said above, it *is* our job... so yeah, there's going to be work involved, lol.) But that type of hustle - which honestly just boils down to having an interesting personality and being able to talk to people - comes naturally for me. It feels less like "work" a lot of the time and more like getting paid to flirt, chat, and joke around with guys who are actually cool. (Sort of like dating in real life without, you know... the real life thing. haha.)
Also, the *point* of this kind of hustle is the fact that if you do it right, you're going to get a lot more than just "a few bucks out of someone." I'd much rather have the opportunity to attract an unlimited amount of wealthy guys on the internet who I never have to talk to when I'm not online, see in person, or fuck.
but you do you.
08-03-2019, 04:14 PMGenoveve
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Sorry, but that sounds like a lot of work just a hustle a few bucks out of someone. If it takes that much to land a high roller, I think I'll just stick to my 9 to 5 and keep dating guys with money.
Your '9 to 5' sounds like way harder work, based on your post history, IMO.
08-06-2019, 04:10 PMxstripper90
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I don't see it as "a lot of work" (although like kamiliam said above, it *is* our job... so yeah, there's going to be work involved, lol.) But that type of hustle - which honestly just boils down to having an interesting personality and being able to talk to people - comes naturally for me. It feels less like "work" a lot of the time and more like getting paid to flirt, chat, and joke around with guys who are actually cool. (Sort of like dating in real life without, you know... the real life thing. haha.)
Also, the *point* of this kind of hustle is the fact that if you do it right, you're going to get a lot more than just "a few bucks out of someone." I'd much rather have the opportunity to attract an unlimited amount of wealthy guys on the internet who I never have to talk to when I'm not online, see in person, or fuck.
but you do you.
After all, the more worked up he gets and prolonging it is going to make a way more intense and memorable climax.
